Kai went to Oma's yesturday for the weekend, but he will be coming home today, for some reason he woke up at 11 and started crying about wanting to come home, he cried for an hour before they called here, daddy was awake and calmed him down but then he made Oma stay awake until 4am watching tv, then only slept til 8. So I will pick him up today, I have a feeling this is due to him knowing that Reiko and I will be leaving for a while in February. I have been telling him that mommy and Reiko will be leaving for a long time to go to the doctors. He has been good about it, but I think when the time actually comes after a week he will be wondering why we are not back yet and Derek may have a hard time with him. Kai had a bizarre week at school, he was awfully tired his teacher said and he bit a classmate twice this week. The first time he had a really hard tiring day she said, he thought that the boy was hitting another classmate and he bit him, he was sent to time out and I decided to keep him home the next day to just be lazy and hopefully be rejeuvenated for school the next day. Then the day he came back he bit the same boy again but this time the boy hit him first, but no one saw it, and then he bit him in retaliation. We had a big talk that night about going to the teacher when someone hurts him physically/emotionally and hopefully next week will be better. He is generally a gentle boy and has never had a biting problem.
Yesturday Derek was supposed to go get the "snip snip" done, well we went to the hospital and he was ready, but he didn't know he was not supposed to eat breakfast, he was then informed he could not have the vasectomy done because they inject adrenaline in and it causes you not to have a gag reflex, so now he has to wait again..I was not impressed, it was not in the pamphlet of what to do and he does not remember what the drs said at his pre admit a few months back. I was ticked that he couldn't remember that one thing about his stuff but I have to know everything about Reiko's. But later on we laughed it off and hopefully he can get it done in the next two weeks before we go to Montreal.
Yesturday Derek and I were able to give Reiko his first bath since the bad break in his right leg, we thought it was his femur that was broken, but turns out its his tibia. He is much more comfortable now out of the brace and in a regular splint. Plus its so much easier for us, I will bring him with me to pick Kai so that he can actually get out of the house for the first time in weeks! He hasn't been out in almost 3 weeks I think because of the fractures! This will be a treat for him lol.
Last night I went to my mom's house for a visit and we were looking at pictures on her computer and we came across some of Moxy and I just started bawling, I miss him so much. I would give anything to see him one more time, to have a kiss, hug and one last goodbye, I never got to say goodbye, We found a video I was hoping to find and it was so funny it was of me making high pitched noises and him howling...It brought more tears, it was so good to see him alive again for a minute. I just wish he was still here. But we felt him last night at mom's. I was saying "MOXY COME HERE BUDDY, GIVE ME A SIGN YOUR HERE!" and it started out my mom said her back felt really cold, and then all of a sudden the cold came right over to me, and was laying beside me, it was really cold feeling and it wasn't there before, It felt like alot of cold air movement beside me and it made me so happy. I really hope it was him.
That is all for now! take care. hope you all are good.
Jess
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